Dr. Harmander Singh
Introduction and Detailed Philselfological Point of View for Sex, Soul Mates and Marriage Life: Be Happy Philselfologically - 41

Its practical approach in the human relationships in the martial life and in any other form that asks a philselfological questions: How to Search for the Soul Mates- A Philselfological View? What is Sex and Why do the marriages breaks? We can have many reasons for it but philselfologically.

We have mostly noticed that making the home real needs the creative thinking. The joy of home is totally an art, which many people avoid to learn because they feel that it is taking up the responsibilities. The home making and responsibility are part of social maturity, which leads to intellectual and emotional maturity and thus the stability. The final aim of home is for spiritual maturity.

Many people believe that it was the Freud, who introduced Psychology as the desire for sex. However it is not the case, the ancient Indian Scriptures use such a high level of word for it that the psychologists, who follow the theories of the Freud may find it disgusting and wonderful at the same time. The Indian scriptures use the word Aapat Kaam, the sexual urge of the soul.

Now, there cannot be more than this. The Freud talks about the physical desire, but the in the Indian Civilization it is the desire of the soul to have sex, the blissful joy of self as experienced in the meditation and at that state of mind one is but without body, the physical body is no longer felt, but the body and mind as a whole. The Bodiless Love, if we accept the term.

The entire have the desire of the sex at the soul level, this is the love, which one has for the God. The way Soul loves God is the ever contenting fulfillment of all desires. The mediation is a kind of self-love, but it is not physical. It is the Aapat Kaam, the sex which is spiritual in nature. This is the surrender of ego and the joy of the state of egoless level of mind. This level is the level of selflessness, the original state of the ego.

The joy of it is so high that person would not like to have physical relationships at the cost of it.

The cause of the breaking of the marriages is that the attraction cannot be the affinity. When we find the soul mates, it is not finding the body that attracts us; it is finding the soul, which can have the bond of affinity. This bond is like a covalent bond as if the one in the ideal gases like the Helium.

The creative thinking and the scientific feelings blend covalently when we accept these as the two atoms of the nucleus of the self, the platform of soul mating, and thus the philselfological human bonds.

We now need to look into the matter otherwise:

Detailed Philselfological Point of View for Sex, Soul Mates and Marriage Life:

The attraction and affinity have two different concepts. The affinity is the most appropriate way for marriage; the attraction is a different aspect. The marriage is not just a bond. In the Indian Religions and the Faiths, the word Grahysatha Ashram is for marriage life. The Ashram is for taking the help and refuge for betterment of life. The Grahysatha Ashram is thus living in the refuge of the householder’s life. Now, the householder is not the caretaker, landlord and or the one, who possesses the house. It is the making the word home real as art and thus and then the law of affinity.


Among my many self-written and edited books the following one says: With our PC, we learn to communicate and when we create something, it is a creative interaction-a key to creative communication that helps to create the essence of human relationships philselfologically:

Wordless Art of Creative Communication: Part One

Wordless Art of Creative Communication: Part Two


15 Easy Ways to Manage and Develop Moods


Well, we notice that when we go to the hotels, clubs, and various other places in life, but these cannot be home. The home is feeling of affinity, which even the couple without having a house can have. On the other hand a rich person having all possible luxuries may not enjoy the feelings of the home.

The search for the soul mates is going higher than we can imagine, but the ways and the means are getting difficult as it is for the professionals, who give the psychic readings. The Reiki, Psychic readings, Intuitive readings and many other ways are now the means for it. However, it is not that these are wrong, the matter is that the people, who may not have any experience in these claim to guide the masses. The better way could have been to teach and learn about how to know about the soul mate.

The desire and need seem one to those, who do not have the quality of the psychic and the intuitive readings. So mostly one seems to follow the desire, which leads to fantasy for meeting the soul mate. Now, we may wonder about how this fantasy has promoted the websites for the affection promotion.

What does it make the human, a product for sensual pleasure and the grand market of the products for the stimulants both medical and equipments, while offering the guarantee to satisfy the most fundamental human urge, the desire for love and the love mates.

These are the false prophets of love. The love is not a use of human as product and the products, where the human body is a tool. The Freud says that in all relationships there is presence of desire, particularly the urge for sex.

It seem to have promoted to such an extent that the websites are now teaching how mothers can teach the sons, the fathers to the daughters, the teaches to the students, the brothers to sisters and all other relations demons on the webs. On the other hand, the Freud says that the diseases, which the kids have from the parental side.

The controversial topic its now very much now when we learn it philselfologically that has moved the masses for heterosexual to homosexual exploring for the soul mates seems the mockery of the psychological problems which evolve from the human relationships. The emerging of the sedative growing up from the childhood to adult age as there is what is on the artificial world of the porn, the mothers’ phobias, father’s child abuse and the child abuse at large scale has become such a normal phenomena that parents, educators, preachers and all those, who could have guided the youth for the kind of life, which promotes the home making cannot do anything. The process of home breaking seems dominating.

The woman as a product seems highly profitable to such porn websites to almost most of the people who launch them as if they are a kind of product.

Now, the question is if the psychic readings and the web searches for such purposes are guiding well, why there is such a high level of threat to the human bond of marriage?

The reason is simple we are moving towards the fantasy world, where the stimulants and the humans have no difference. At one place there are the websites on the other hand the warning would appear that if one has viewed any such vulgar video or anything in the paradise of pornographic world, it may disturb the marriage life, so the cleansing of the hard disk is the taking bath in the holy water to remove the sins. It does not appear that there are enough websites for sex education and the marriage life.

However, I have noticed few. The lack of the desire management can upset the dutifulness, economic balance and the living the life with liberty and freedom. It happens when we do not have the creative thinking and knowledge of the creative arts in practical and lacks the managed feelings as the scientific ones, philselfologically, as the singing and listening the music differs so does the joy of viewing and doing the works, which we like to view.

The majority of the porn’s paradises are for making the mockery of the woman as a product and woman’s products for stimulants. Well, you see these stimulants imbalance the hormones and the psychic centers, and thus the biorhythm of the females and the males as well. There is no such thing as perfect male and the perfect female, but perfect couples or householder families do exist. We all have the ratio of the hormones, which on having different ratio makes one male and the other female.

The full hormones of male, as the absence of the estrogen in the male is not possible, neither in the female that it is absent in her. The soul mate is thus the one, in whose presence there are the following points present

1. No thought vibrations for sensual joy

2. No urge for stimulation

3. No desire for the physical relations

However the following would appear,

1. The joy of presence

2. The surrender of ego

3. The feelings one oneness as the mind has no desire to possesses

4. Absence of fear to lose

5. Singleness of thought, in which there is no comparison

Well, you see these points remove the cause of great suffering as the comparison and the contrast, which the intellect uses as a snake bite, when one as the assumed soul mate fails to perform as if a product to the consumer.

Well, you there are usually many questions raised about why the woman in India assumes her husband as equivalent to God, that is, she worships him as God. It is for the Aapat Kaam, the desire of the soul for which the bliss surpasses the so called orgasms and the other centers. Her affection for the husband is as if for God, the Purusha that is inside both male and female as the right side of the body that deals with the intellect, and thus the loyalty for so that the attraction for the left side of the body that is lunar and thus the female energies both in the left side of body and the right side of the brain does not get harmed.


Among many great Indians, the people who have contributed most on, about and for sex education includes Osho and the Harbhajan Singh Yogi of USA, and I may not say that they completed their works that can be introduced in the schools and other institutions that need it more seriously than ever before.


Osho's opinion on Sex Education, World Population


The world religions and faiths have three branches namely the Brahma that follows the Teachers Life , Vishnu that follows the God worship as the Sun, the Warriors Life and the Shiva follows the Shiv-Shakti concepts as the Technologists Life.

These branches are supplement and complement in the social structures and its development and evolution. Teachers have high ethics and morals as they do need as if a Brahmans do, the Warriors have high restrictions on martial and sex life and thus many may not even like to talk to opposite sex or any talk about it, and finally the Technologists need high quality and techniques invented based on social needs and thus they talk about cause and effect, the techniques and skills that help householders life making it easier and enjoyable. Without these three major ones, the rest of the people who do not to follow these are called the Prajapati, who produce things as needed in their families and societies.

They are not just people, but the people without whom nothing in action is possible as the Teachers work on Pure Research Works, the Technologists applies the pure works into action, and thus the Action Research Works, and the Soldiers and Warriors are the form of Applied Research Works, and thus are considered scientific in approach, and it helps in maintaining the society with better soul management as this part of the series Be Happy Philselfologically discusses.

Thus, for the holistic body as one soul needs that we accept one another as the souls - a complete person so similarly as for the right side of the body we have on the other hand, the Indian husband would accept her as the Power of Mother Nature, the Shakti, the right brain in an individual running the left side of body in everyone, and without which the man or woman is as if a dead body.

They unite as the God and Mother Nature. The natural harmony, which is not possible to break as God and Mother Nature are one and the same. This bond is named as the bond of the soul mate.

She knows that there can be many men in the world, but she has hers as the only male. On the other hand for the man, all the women are just image of the womanhood, not of her soul mate as his wife is. This concept surpasses when the soul level concept emerges as that all creation is in the female form.

All the creation, of which we all are the part, is in the female form. There is no gender difference and thus the covalent bond. We enjoy the ionic bonds and when the attraction from outside increases the bond breaks. Thus breaking the marriages, which were the committed ones initially?

All the ionic bonds are symbol of attraction, but the affinity represents the union of the similar atoms.

It may be the soul level, when we understand that we do not have compare the gender, once the marriage bond is in function, as it needs the covalence state. Thus the hunting for the soul mates is the outer reactions to the glittering beauty, the mirage. The transcendental soul mating lifts the helium bond to the sky, in which the ideal bond is present. The ionic bonds, which feel the need to react for the differences in the physical forms and the existence, are not stable.

These are based on the concept that there is gender, the ionization of the hormones. However it does not mean the homosexual are the covalent bonds, as they have the same body. They have the same ionic levels, as the hydrogen meets the hydrogen atom to make the hydrogen molecule, which burns.

The same bonds when go through the soul level process of co-valence, the coexistence as its the law of affinity in most cases that we all seek and want as it goes for the helium atom, which uplifts the souls, and thus the soul mates. The ionization in the relations causes the stimulation leading to more and more reactivity, while there is no achievement of the contentment at the soul level.

Philselfologically, the covalent bond is the meeting and the union of the creative thinking, the active part in the females due to hormones and the scientific feelings in the males due to the hormones, the estrogen level, and the balances that makes the human body as the males and the females. The self as the soul does not differ; there is no soul for which we have a gender.

The gender is for the biological body, the outer configuration of the nucleus. Well, in the nucleus the protons can exist together, while outside it is repulsive leading to the nucleus of the soul mating.

Now, when we may ever go for soul mates philselfologically as if for the joy of the metaphysical, mystical and metaphorical world and that is possible only if we know how to respect one as a gender the root word is jind, means the biological life of a body as a physical that is why many sing it as the jindoo or jindu means life of life for great respecting one another. The gender and the jinder has the similar meaning as for the jitendar, the winner of senses and thus the sex life without physical abuse is the jinder, the Indra of Life that has what the bioengineering deals in our body, the bio-energies in it as the word J or even G stands for the Jeeva, the Shakti and or Vital Energies of an individual.

Let us respect the Jee as we say Mr. Steven Ferrel Jee or Ji and Shri Guru Nanak Dev Jee or Ji, and thus is the Jee or Ji (the Jee or Ji is also written as Gee or Gi as almost same in the Hindi, Punjabi, Sanskrit and many other languages) and that is true for each body that lives and that we entered as a soul to keep it alive and which dies when we, the souls leave it.

This is what Be Philselfologically Happy says for every living one and those who depart and among us who will come keep the fetus alive out the womb till it emerges back to the tomb as we all are going to grave.

Thanks for your time!
Dr. Harmander Singh
The Divine Wisdom of OM for All Languages with AEU and OAE in Punjabi, and Gurmukhi as the Practitioner's Vedic or Language of Mouth - 10

We all hear word OM as we have discussed in the previous part of this series. It has the same roots as the Patanjali Yoga Shastra says about the most primitive sound of OM as the vowels of OAM, which are the same as the English vowels namely, the AEIOU giving the sound of AEU, which is the root word for Waheguru. The OAM is not just sound of the Patanjali or the Vedas but its what gave the Vedas to the world as the OM is the Parent as the sound produced by Lord Brahma that then was given forms of Word, the Shabad in form of prose and poetry to all that thus we know and thus manage knowledge and wisdom on earth.

The word Waheguru in any form of sounds and prose and poetry has the three Primal sounds in it as AEU in it. This pattern of vowels is the same in all languages of the world. The AEU is the set of 3 vowels of the Sanskrit, and in the Punjabi Version of the Sanskrit, which is the Gurmukhi Lipi, which is the Script for Teachers, the Gurus, who teach any language.

The Punjabi Script as we know and call it Gurmukhi is having the Guru Mukhi means the Vedic or the Verbal Language by and for the Gurus, the Teachers of Vedic Knowledge and Wisdom. The word Mukhi is from the mouth and thus is called from the mukh, and thus Gurmukhi means from and by the Mukh, the Mukhi. The Knowledge and Wisdom of the Mouth is called the Vedic in its nature and practice, and thus the Gurmukhi language is for the practitioners of any language in the world.

The first 3 vowels in Punjabi are O, A and U. These together create the sound of the word OM. The word OAU is OM when we speak it while our mouth is closed. With our mouth closed we cannot utter the sound of OAM as at the nose the M sound gives the sound of A. Thus, the Punjabi with its Gurmukhi Scriopt uses OAU as the OAM in the mouth and thus the Waheguru and OAU defend both the Sanskrit and Hindi languages as well as the Civilization of India in support to all other world civilizations, languages and the classical arts that are classical in the natural flow, the OAM in nature.

It gives better shape to musical measurements as in the form of ragas, we have the variations of the sounds of OAM that have all the Ragas varying from place to place, and time to time based on the natural world at a particular place and the birds, plants, animals, and other forms of life at any place in the world. So, while using OAM as the primal sound, we can create new ragas, the classical measurements anywhere in the world.

In our courses at Life Dynamix - Wings for All, we are going to help individuals to develop their own meters of ragas that suits their surrounding environment while aiding to the ancient ragas, the parameters and scales for musical measurements.

The knowledge and wisdom of the vowels of OAM, AEU as in Waheguru and OAU in the Punjabi alphabet has lot to offer to human civilization aiding to almost all form of human and thus various forms of knowledge and wisdom present in the natural world on our earth.

We can have systems for all languages, rags, computer applications and lot more with set of these 3 primal sounds that further embraces 9 sounds and the rest that equate equal to 52 sounds with consonants based on these 9 minor and 3 major sounds of world languages based on the various patterns with which we take care of almost all computer applications and thus the programming that I learned during my schools times at the High School as a student of Year 9-10 in 1986-87. I later named it as the Philselfology for the research purposes, and thus for our mental health and wellness.

When the computer literacy was introduced in the Indian Schools as in Punjab, we were among the students who learned with the computer teachers as for both of us, it was a new thing as many now days think and assume that electromagnetic systems that interpret human brain, the mind and body talks can be understood through modern techno systems may assume that the elders or seniors may not know is what we did not face as we along with the seniors and the teachers. For me the Thapur Engineering College as the Institute by then was a place where I would go and ask the professors and the lectures, and they say as always to do the trial and error methods and at the same time using of books.

So, during the sessions of 1986-87, I was the computer teacher in my government schools, the Government Multipurpose Schools in Patiala. I taught hundreds of students while also doing all school record work and transferred almost all records into the database of the school say NCC, collecting the filled forms, depositing the forms and fees so collected and as the class monitor I used to manage the entire school management of hundreds of students.

At the same time, I also learned the computer programming and that was 10 INPUT 20 INPUT and so on with the number systems. So, my fisrt programming was the English, and I may not at able to give any excellence when the advanced levels of technologies are here everywhere in the world.

While leaving the lock and keys, I went to Australia in 1989 and came back in 1991 in the same computer room where once Mr. Chris Brooks also visited in 1992. I never knew what happens in the world. I have had computer in my life say 1984-85, and at times as the experiences of life have been so rich that I may forget whether the years were 1984-85 or 1986-87 as we did not have any spare to see even a calendar. So, thus has been every engaged and busy times.

We will discuss about it in the next part of this series based on the research works of and on Philselfology.

Relevant forum discussion initiating article:

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Dr. Harmander Singh
How to Solve the Most Serious Mythological and Psychological Genetic Mental Health Problems and OM - 9

What exactly is Kaliyuga, the stored age lived in our body, mind, heart and soul in the age of technology has only one simple meaning that the Indians think as people think in the Tsunami and other global calamities and the natural problems. It has the verbal culture as the Vedas and as simple as we think as we say we cannot have peace without peace inside our own creative intelligence or heart. This is purely the sound pollution of the subconscious mind, the mind that process that polluted files.

These files get loaded when we do not want to practice classical arts and thus records music with raga, the scientific compositions that our brain can do what we know as the auto-run or the Kantha of the Music, which people who sing in the mind have whenever they want it as the videos and audio files.

These need artistic compositions in all that our brain records like colors, shapes, sounds, buildings (the structures), and all that our body, mind, heart and soul takes as the pure, the Shudhi concepts of the Vedic times, which are not the ancient or old time but the time that people who live naturally as the aborigines and native people do. The modern or the contemporary people simply go away from this track of the age by leaving the natural world and its life style that nature follow though slowly as if the Treta, the 50% of technology, and then to 75 and never 100% any age but say 50 to 75% in the Dwapura and the Kaliyuga as we seem to be while going away from the natural world that always waits her children for us, the humans to and when we return.

What we have in our modern age is that we know it well with the help of internet and technology that all of it is surely possible that we have pollution free world in the above said manner that is the classical works fed to the natural world and thus the best from the natural world. This is when we help nature to help us by not polluting what is original or the classical by almost no possible means. It is possible and we simply need to make an efforts as all of it is for free by the natural world if we stop though slowly to market all of it for money alone as the money cannot make the difference.

The money not earned by non polluted environment is just pollution of the subconscious mind creating dreams that seem to auto-run until one dies in the physical body.

This sound very pollution, the Kalesha's which results from the excessive use of technology can produce more knowledge than we ever need to know, understand and comprehend anything in our real life that we live. We do not live the dreams as the dreams cannot be real, but a tonic for the brain as sleep for the natural world is for say humans, animals and the other living ones.

Most of the black magicians, the tantricks, the oujhasa, reiki masters and other healers in the world simply either may create these mind pollutions in the mind, the brain or help in removing all of these, and with little training all of them can help the world a better civilization where all can live healthy and happy life.

What we need to do is to simply need to do what does not harmful to the natural and the rest is always easy and at hand when we listen to the music and arts going inside our heart and mind all the times for always free and when we need it for better health and wellness. This is what we want to do at Life Dynamix - Wings for All as our courses for finding what we can access for free in our body, mind, heart and the souls. These are very easy to follow courses based on the natural knowledge and wisdom that we all have from the natural world. If we know it, we can help the natural world so that we all coexist happily at least at night (LOL!)

Many people assume that we all know it very well, but its skills are from the way the Vedic or the Verbal Knowledge and Wisdom of our World gives us rather than how and what we know and think about it academically. This is the secret of one world that is inside us not outside until we make an efforts for it by the cleansing of the subconscious mind (that we cannot ever change but manage no matter what the yuga is going on say the Satyuga, Treta, Dwapura or the Kaliyuga as none can erase any content but help managing what we have from our ever lived ancestors, and the grandparents and the parents) without touching or disturbing any content or even a single word in it as its well threaded and integrated system, the Vivashtha that none can ever disturb, and we strongly believe it so at the Life Dynamix - Wings for All.

It has nothing to do with what one is, who one is, where one lives, how one lives, eats, drinks and have spend life and aims to live. Its as natural possible as natural world have been teaching us from the ages in the Verbal or the Vedic ways as the native, the aborigines, and other lovers of nature have always been living.

All of it is from the single sound of the primal or the primary sounds of O, A and M as we say; the OM that supports the civilization of the natural world in the universe as we say OM, the set of sounds O, A and M as the three parent sounds with the three parent colors which we know as the primary sounds and the colors and we never need to be perfect in this verbal knowledge that experts in their individual fields know in detail and depth. WE simply help managing this natural system as Life Dynamix - Wings for All!

Together we can make a difference by going as primary as primal in future!

Thanks for your time reading it!
Dr. Harmander Singh
How to Solve the Most Serious Mythological and Psychological Genetic Mental Health Problems - 8

In my researches of Philselfology based on the Indian Philosophies and thus the Darshana have been also dealing with the one of the major genetic disorder that we find prominent in the world civilization particularly in the Indian regions. Its based on the fact that biologically or genetically what seems to be fully designed as the grandfather means that one is son of the grandparents and similarly, the girls seem to be daughters of their grandfathers from mother's side.

In my finds, the most of problems it seem to have on the mental health, the schizoid world that gives the brain activities that one follows and we seem to lag one generation behind. The solutions usually have always have come from time to time from the Vedic times, and thus from the great women like the Mary giving birth to Lord Jesus, Kunti giving birth to Arjana, Shri Guru Teg Bahadur giving birth to Shri Guru Gobind Singh and many other examples breaking this long standing myth that the grandfathers seem to be the real fathers and mothers to the children, and thus most people used to say it the son of father or daughter of father or mother. It seems to be evolution of human race.

It may solve the serious problems when one faces genetic or diseases from the genes of grandparents by proper studying and supporting them. We assume that the grandparents constitute the subconscious mind until one accepts the verbal teachings as better than what only grandparents or parents alone say. For it, right from the Vedic times or ages, the word as the God or teacher has been for all, and thus has been sages, rishis, munis, saints, holy people and even the prophets.

They all are called the parents of the subconscious mind and thus helping one follow the true evolution without struggling in the mind and always lagging behind. They give almost all skills to master the subconscious mind, the perception and thus the psychic levels, which is called the transitional mind or the dreamy state of brain that interferes in our life and thus we seem to have less love, affection, care and concern for our forefathers, grandparents and parents in general as the modern world seem to have mess of all.

Otherwise, we may be looking ahead for mental violence that reflects the activity in the brain that one may not control due to these reasons no matter how smart one is by controlling all of it.

That is one of major reasons that the Indians respect teachers more than the parents and anyone creating violence is considered as upset in the subconscious due to above said reasons. Even in the family the mother is considered as on the highest seat or the chair of a teacher, and any violence against her is considered as serious offense.

Thus, the parents help Indian grandparents by setting an example for their children and thus the grandchildren. So, teacher and taught relation is pious in the Indian and the other civilizations. It has levels that start from family and end in the church or temple and the Mosque or the Gurudwara. Thus, we can understand and comprehend Indian Philosophies by accepting its natural flow as one expressed in this blog post.

Thanks for your time reading it!
Dr. Harmander Singh
Word Theories and the Indian Classical Music and Arts for Better Health - 7

We in the world civilization, a time part of the natural world seem to create almost most of the diseases by the wrong combinations and permutations that harm the genes of words as it cannot vibrate with the human bodies and other things properly. It leads to incurable diseases and we cannot help anything improve health and wellness without proper management of the genes of the words that we know as the Sanskaras in India means installation of no corrupt file in our brains and other things. The words that are most natural or universal have always been in the natural world and thus can heal us better and thus is the Indian Classical Music and Other Arts.

For example: Does not a goat or the goats seem to say: Hallelujah as this video says:, and we can adjust any name that has a grammatically symmetry in it that gives the scientific meaning and thus authentic voices of names, things and the places. The same word Hallelujah can also be or something like that in the spellings,and thus the music and the sound have always existed even before the natural world, the humans, animals, birds, plants and other things living and the nonliving were created in it and thus what the Indians say the Sanatana or the Eternal Existence of sound in the universe that we say the Shabad or the Word of God!

Its very interesting and easy to understand when we learn and comprehended naturally as even the computers associated to our body and the brains as in BCI can produce that we may not be using that way in the future as we work on these easy natural world restoring process as the natural laws and the principles say and give us better insight as the Darshana or the Sacred Visualization Theory of India, but those, who discovered it in the purely natural world say that only those sounds practiced for long enough time need to be used rather than creating permutations and combinations with loss at per each though of the original and making the bits creep in the brains and shout like nothing, the vacuum of the anode and cathode making brain a lab fun, is not it or more vacuum is required, and its not when one has done enough practice in the sound therapies, the musicology! P.S.: The long sentences seem to be a prose-poem!

These natural laws and principles on earth have enough grounds to make a difference for the better world in our modern age.

Thanks and hope to start these courses, the most of which are verbal and based on our already possessed knowledge and experiences, its easy to heal therapies called Be Happy Philselfologically!
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