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The father’s influence on the baby's is quite substantial. Secure attachment relationship is the basis of baby interpersonal development. So, do not mean you love, and more exchanges with the baby, give your baby a deep fatherly love and a good influence.

1 do not mean your baby's love

Secure attachment relationship is the basis of baby interpersonal development. Only when the baby a child to experience all the positive emotions of love, the heart will feel they are safe to be able to equally interact with one another. So, do not mean you love, close to the baby, so that he fully realize the love, intimacy in close contact with the father.

2, positive response to the baby

Before the baby can speak, he can only use their own way to communicate with you. Maybe a little sound, a movement or facial expression, gaze, or to escape, but that baby to your suggestions.

Do not mean your response, you will find that your smile can make anxiety baby gradually quiet down, he will cry less in the evening will be quieter. This is because the baby to appease or feeding able to quiet his brain's anxiety response system automatically shut down. But be careful: Do not meet all his requirements, you just keep a positive response to the baby's cues and let him know you understand his request.


3, try to speak with the baby
You and your baby’ all talk for the baby to learn to lay a solid foundation. When the baby to hear more and more words, the brain dealing with language function will be developed. Try to talk to the baby, reading or singing, maybe a start is just a simple picture books read to him, rather than try to teach him. When the baby grew bigger and bigger, you can read the story to encourage him to participate - repeat the tone and words, you do it slowly, he can.

4 To help the baby to establish order

For the baby, the establishment of order is essential. The baby is to learn to repeat, this is also an important prerequisite for a sense of security. Remember, each day, changing diapers and bathing time is very important. Is also necessary to repeat or even fixed let your baby appreciate the happy event, such as before going to bed, telling stories or singing, listening to songs after returning home to eat cookies and candy.

5, to encourage the baby to safety explore

For the baby, you're his whole world, to a large extent you determine the attitude of his understanding of the world, and his interaction largely determine the way of his learning. Therefore, when the baby try to explore or play games, you have to maintain a receptive attitude, especially when he after a setback, you need to be encouraged from you. Only in this way the baby will be difficult, the future without fear.

6, a selective accompany the baby to watch TV

Studies have shown that your baby to learn to limit the time spent watching TV and content related with their father. Do not let the TV to become the baby's "sister", even watching TV, the baby also, and you watch. You can use your way to explain the contents of the TV, or even discuss with him, so that watching TV can become a learning experience.

7 Regarding rules as a learning opportunity

Do not expect the baby will never do what you said, he usually is impulsive, and a lot of time in noisy, because he does not have the ability to frustration and anger to control their emotions. Let your baby to learn self-control will take some time. Never take a call or hard to shake the baby, studies show that this baby will cause permanent adverse effects, and make him feel fear, shame or anger, This interaction can only teach the baby with the same violent way to resist.

Encountered the baby so that you are not happy, give yourself a little time to count to 10, to calm down, or get a friend to talk to ease the emotional. When your reaction is too strong or the requirements are too strict, talk to the baby I'm sorry, will not only compensate for the loss, but also let your baby feel the love and support.

8, each baby is unique

Each baby has its own temperament and growth rate, each baby is unique. Unique to give your baby to encourage, you'll see the baby really will be able to do a good job. In general, the parents will help the baby to baby more sensitive reaction to establish a positive self-esteem.

Father plays a important role in the education of baby, let alone mother. You need to pay more attention to the baby’s care.