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Father activities affect the baby’s intelligence

Posted May 21, 2012 by aminachen in Family & Home

The father’s influence on the baby's is quite substantial. Secure attachment relationship is the basis of baby interpersonal development. So, do not mean you love, and more exchanges with the baby, give your baby a deep fatherly love and a good influence.

1 do not mean your baby's love

Secure attachment relationship is the basis of baby interpersonal development. Only when the baby a child to experience all the positive emotions of love, the heart will feel they are safe to be able to equally interact with one another. So, do not mean you love, close to the baby, so that he fully realize the love, intimacy in close contact with the father.

2, positive response to the baby

Before the baby can speak, he can only use their own way to communicate with you. Maybe a little sound, a movement or facial expression, gaze, or to escape, but that baby to your suggestions.

Do not mean your response, you will find that your smile can make anxiety baby gradually quiet down, he will cry less in the evening will be quieter. This is because the baby to appease or feeding able to quiet his brain's anxiety response system automatically shut down. But be careful: Do not meet all his requirements, you just keep a positive response to the baby's cues and let him know you understand his request.

3, try to speak with the baby
You and your baby’ all talk for the baby to learn to lay a solid foundation. When the baby to hear more and more words, the brain dealing with language function will be developed. Try to talk to the baby, reading or singing, maybe a start is just a simple picture books read to him, rather than try to teach him. When the baby grew bigger and bigger, you can read the story to encourage him to participate - repeat the tone and words, you do it slowly, he can.

4 To help the baby to establish order

For the baby, the establishment of order is essential. The baby is to learn to repeat, this is also an important prerequisite for a sense of security. Remember, each day, changing diapers and bathing time is very important. Is also necessary to repeat or even fixed let your baby appreciate the happy event, such as before going to bed, telling stories or singing, listening to songs after returning home to eat cookies and candy.

5, to encourage the baby to safety explore

For the baby, you're his whole world, to a large extent you determine the attitude of his understanding of the world, and his interaction largely determine the way of his learning. Therefore, when the baby try to explore or play games, you have to maintain a receptive attitude, especially when he after a setback, you need to be encouraged from you. Only in this way the baby will be difficult, the future without fear.

6, a selective accompany the baby to watch TV

Studies have shown that your baby to learn to limit the time spent watching TV and content related with their father. Do not let the TV to become the baby's "sister", even watching TV, the baby also, and you watch. You can use your way to explain the contents of the TV, or even discuss with him, so that watching TV can become a learning experience.

7 Regarding rules as a learning opportunity

Do not expect the baby will never do what you said, he usually is impulsive, and a lot of time in noisy, because he does not have the ability to frustration and anger to control their emotions. Let your baby to learn self-control will take some time. Never take a call or hard to shake the baby, studies show that this baby will cause permanent adverse effects, and make him feel fear, shame or anger, This interaction can only teach the baby with the same violent way to resist.

Encountered the baby so that you are not happy, give yourself a little time to count to 10, to calm down, or get a friend to talk to ease the emotional. When your reaction is too strong or the requirements are too strict, talk to the baby I'm sorry, will not only compensate for the loss, but also let your baby feel the love and support.

8, each baby is unique

Each baby has its own temperament and growth rate, each baby is unique. Unique to give your baby to encourage, you'll see the baby really will be able to do a good job. In general, the parents will help the baby to baby more sensitive reaction to establish a positive self-esteem.

Father plays a important role in the education of baby, let alone mother. You need to pay more attention to the baby’s care.

Tags: father, baby, positive, love, mother

Self-Publishing and Free ISBN for All Literary Works: S

Posted December 20, 2010 by Dr. Harmander Singh in Writers, Writing Tools, Business

The self-publishing is getting cheaper, and one can afford it as the POD (Print on Demand) and the way it goes PDF (Portable Document Files). There are still some factors, particularly the funds, which many writers may not afford as the currency one country may be costly for the people on the other side of the world. I would suggest some tips on it, as I have gone through the process of published three books. The most important point is that is of worth noting is that the writer is to become a self-publisher and distributor.

The usual way is that you publish at least 500 copies from the offset printing from your home country. The ISBN is a free if you just click on the International ISBN agency in your country. Just send them an application that you want to register your publication house. It is easy to become a self-publisher if one is the sole proprietor (M/S) of the publication house. Otherwise, the process may be long. The agency for the ISBN registers it without any fee and sends you a list of ISBN numbers for each of your publication.

You have to send and confirm your ISBN number before publishing, once you receive it, you can publish your book. Then there are free websites helping writers to promote their works, so that the readers may contact them. Thanks to modern technology, that one can open a blog without any investment. The ISBN is a self-promoting way for each book. You may place books on the book stalls, libraries, ask the librarian about the bulk orders, the salesman can sell your book with some commission. Keeping ISBN for all works is good, indeed a necessity.

The process ISBN is same in most of the countries. It is a global service helping the writers. I wish all the writers well for this somewhat easy going work as I have noticed that most of the writers are working laboriously, but without results. If you keep on sending your written material for acceptance one day, you may regret. The published submissions are only about 10%.

However, in your home country, you may go for better results for the beginning. This is one of the cheap and risk free way for self-publishing, as you may publish even 100 books with printing cost only. I wish you all the best for your future. Please accept that the writers are literary assets of world, and thus they may go ahead for getting their books published to keep the child within, the original writer always alive and keep going.

Well, have a wonderful experience with http://www.isbn-international.org/

"Hold my hand!" By Bob Perks

Posted November 23, 2010 by Dr. Harmander Singh in Writers, Literature, Oneness, Making A Difference, Inspiration

"Hold my hand!"
By Bob Perks

"Hold my hand, Bobby!," she said and I did.

I loved holding my mother's hand. It was
soft like a satin pillow, yet firm enough to
hold onto me when I got distracted.

As I write these words I can clearly see
them reaching out for me. I want so
desperately to feel that comfort again,
not only in her touch, but the comfort
of knowing she was there.

Maybe it's the approaching holidays that
have stirred up my sentimental side. I long
to wake up to the smell of the turkey roasting
in the oven. I want to watch her roll out the crust
for the pumpkin pie and butter the pan for
the excess stuffing that just wouldn't fit inside.

I want to see her standing there in the kitchen
wearing a full apron, now covered with flour
and splattered with errant pumpkin mix. She
always let lick the beaters and I made a mess
of it, too.

But I keep going back to her hands. What is this
vision that will not leave me? I try desperately to
see her face and immediately her hands come to
mind.

Maybe it's just that she is concerned for me and
wanted me to know. Seeing her out stretched
hands brings me peace, always did.

There it goes again. Soft, white hands with bluish
veins just below the surface, turning palms up
almost beckoning me to come closer for a hug.

Oh, a mother's hug is like no other. I could live
there, have slept there hearing her beating heart
and feeling her warmth.

Yes, maybe that's it after all.

The holidays were hers. So much so that when she
died in June of that year, two weeks later a flood hit
our home. The water reached nearly to the top of
the doorway on the first floor.

I discovered a pressure cooker on a shelf above the
steps leading to the cellar. When I opened it, I found
it filled with mom's homemade Christmas cookies.
Her last gift made by the same hands that call out
to me today.

The same hands that wiped away my tears, cuddled my
face, scolded me, but never hit, pointed out the good
in me and in the last moments of her life gently let
go of mine.

Hold someone's hand today. Tomorrow you may
wish you had.

"Hold my hand, Bobby."
"I never let go, Mom!"

Thanks, my friend...
"I wish you enough!"
J
Bob Perks

I encourage you to share my stories but
I do ask that you keep my name and contact
information with my work.

If you would like to receive Bob's Inspirational
stories, please visit http://www.IWishYouEnough.com
and submit your email address.
"I Wish You enough!"
© 2001 Bob Perks
I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.
I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear
much bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.
I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Goodbye."

The Foods and My Mum

Posted November 21, 2010 by Dr. Harmander Singh in Culture & Civilization, Foods, Oneness, People, Planet, Poetry

I hear as a child
for foods I eat
eat the organic foods
it is a good meal mum says,
she never conceals and
her words are my food.

It is possible, when I eat my meals,
to forget to check if it is natural as her smile, while
absorbed in my thoughts
I feel the yummy taste
in her words asking me
if I need some more food
my refusals invite new fruit slices for her joy.

My poem with thanks from the source: http://www.xomba.com/the_foods_and_my_mum

Quotes Of Mother Teresa

Posted September 11, 2009 by Amarinder Singh

People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered; Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies; Succeed anyway. If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway. What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight; Build anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous; Be happy anyway. The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway. Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you've got anyway. You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God; It was never between you and them anyway.

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